Partner! Ivan Thompson here,
and I got a few words for
you about my Matchmaking
Services and just how I
work. I hope you've poked
around the Internet and have
looked at all the so called
"Mail Order Bride Agencies",
because as you read through my
site, you'll quickly notice that I'm a
horse of a different color.
over 20 years I have performed and
promoted my matchmaking business by
word-of-mouth, billboards, a
telephone, and a lot of good ol'
fashion boots-to-the-ground hard
work. While the hard work is still
my style, I'm now turning to the
Internet to help me promote,
organize, and communicate to
all the men in the U.S., and
to all of the women in Mexico.
If your hard pressed to find
yourself a Mexican bride I'm
ready to take you down to
Mexico and find you one the
same way I've done it for
over 2 decades. Of course
these days I try to limit my
travels to just one customer
You'll notice I don't
I don't even charge a
registration fee! Nope, not
my style. I don't go for your wallet with
ridiculous "Send a dozen
roses" and other money
making schemes all the
high-tech online matchmaking
systems ands agencies use. I don't try
to tickle your hopes with
promises of Super models or
18 year old girls for every
me tell you right off, only
a few women
really looking to wed an American
man will dare to register
with any online agency.
Most are too afraid their
families will find out, many
don't have the Internet
savvy to complete the
registration form, and many don't
have access to the
Internet. But they all
know to look for the
advertisements I run on
their local radio stations
and in their newspapers when
I'm come to
town with a prospective
American husband to meet
them, and perhaps even marry
mean to blow my own horn,
but there ain't
nobody, or any other
matchmaking service better
known and trusted by Mexican
women then ol' Ivan
Thompson. I've been in this
business for over 20 years,
and I know the Mexican
country (I live there.), the
language (I speak it), the culture
(I love it), and
what the Mexican woman is
looking for. Because of my
experience, my appearances
on the Cristina Show, and my
Showtime movie "Cowboy Del
Amor", I'm recognized in the
streets wherever I go. The
women and their families
know I'm honest, and that I
will look out for their best
interest as much as I do for
the men I bring to meet
them. Matter of fact, you ain't going there with me
without first passing my
sniff test. Don't matter how
much money you got either. I
wont sell my reputation for
a buck or a wild bronco.
me explain just how my
program works and how I can
become your hired hand and your
personal Cowboy Cupid aka Cowboy Del Amor.
One: Buy The Sniff Test
I'm a working man that talks
plainly, and does what he
says he'll do. It's my policy to personally
conduct a phone interview
with every man interested in
my services. I do this to
save my time and your money.
spend as much time necessary
to explain my program and
the costs associated. I'll answer all your
questions, and I'll do my
best to pre-qualify you as a
viable candidate to find a
Mexican bride for or not. I
may decide I
can't help you, or I might
not meet your expectations,
but I won't leave you empty
handed either. The price of
our first interview is the
purchase of a signed
copy of my book "Cowboy
chapter explaining with
how YOU can find a bride
south of the border without
purchase your book and
optional interview for
$21.95 plus S&H:
Click here for a secure
purchase through my Amazon.com listing.
(Price includes Priority
Once I have received your payment,
I will ship your book and include
all my contact information, which
you may use at your option to
contact me for an interview.
Two: Phone Interview
If after we've spoken, and
you passed my sniff test
(and I've passed yours), I'm
ready to go to work for you
immediately upon receiving
our agreed deposit monies
and a few pictures of you.
I'll start contacting the
women I have on file to see
if they're still in the
market for an American
husband, and/or I'll arrange
to take you into Mexico to
find you many possible
candidates during our
Three: We Go Find Your
point it's time to schedule our trip
to Mexico. You'll need to arrange
for your travel, enough
clothes for a 5-7 day stay.
During our first day of travel
will tutor you on exactly
what to expect, how to act,
and what to say or not
say to your perspective
candidates. The NUMBER ONE
RULE is to take my
Upon our arrival in various
towns and cities, I will
placing ads in the local
newspapers and radio
stations. This will ensure
you many candidates to
interview during your stay.
My services include:
All our travel expenses
All our hotel fees for
Any travel fees for women
who will travel to meet
1 night hotel stay for
each of the
women that travel to
All our meals (Alcohol
radio ads as needed
Once we've found you a
match, you should be
prepared to pay for any
dates and time spent getting
to know your future wife. At
that time we'll have a good
sit down talk about what you
have in mind. I can stay, or
leave if everything looks
solid and you would prefer
to be alone. I'll
arrange your travel back to
where we started.
is up to you Partner!
Bull Answers To The Most Frequently Asked Questions
Are There Any Guarantees That I Will
Find A Mexican Woman Willing To Marry Me?
Ivan's Answer: Of course not. But I can guarantee my services
will offer you numerous opportunities, and you will have 100% of my
attention, know-how, and experience focused on your goal to find a
lifelong mate and partner.
Does It Matter To Mexican Women
Good Looking I Am?
Ivan's Answer: The mail order
bride agencies will have you believe you can get anyone you want,
but this is not true. Without a doubt you can do better, but your
looks, age, and qualities determine how much better. Physical
appearance is certainly a factor, but I have never met an American
man, (who I found a Mexican bride for.) who believed he could ever
get such a caliber of woman at home.
Does It Matter How Old I Am To a Mexican Woman?
Ivan's Answer: Your age and
looks will be the first two things they evaluate. Duh! The younger
you look, the better looking you are, and the more qualities you have
means the younger Mexican bride you can attract. You can generally
knock 15-30 years off the minimum age you could attract at home.
In other words: If you are 50 and able to date local women as young
as 35 years old then, you should have no problem finding an even
younger and better looking Mexican bride. If you're 65 and looking
for an 18 year old, I suggest calling 1-800-MIRACLES!
Does My Income Matter To Mexican Women?
If you are an average American you're already considered "rich." Most Mexican women live in conditions that you would find
way below substandard. The monthly minimum wage in Mexico is less than what
average Americans make in a day. It's also important to keep in
mind: Mexican women have a good work ethic and learn responsibilities
early in life. You should anticipate one to two years of full financial
support as your new Mexican bride adjusts to life in the U.S. You should
have a clear understanding of what both your economic roles will be.
Most Mexican women will prefer to be primarily housewives and
mothers while others will want to work.
What Is The Mexican Woman's Motivation For
Marrying An American Man?
Ivan's Answer: Mexico is no paradise for
Mexican women. Unemployment is often over 20%.
The educated are usually underemployed. The poverty level is over 50%.
Crime is high, and the Mexican man is typically overbearing and
unfaithful. It is these conditions that present opportunities
unavailable to you in the U.S. For these reasons, Mexican women are
eager and receptive to finding an American man and romance leading to marriage.
Simply put: They want a better life and a brighter future. BUT, not without
the romance and passion from a good, loving, respectful husband.
Do You Screen The Women?
Ivan's Answer: I conduct a
personal interview with every woman, I try my best to weed out the bad seeds. Over the years I've
gotten pretty good at spotting the trouble makers. If you find a
potential wife in Mexico you will be required by our new Homeland
Security laws to have a background and security check done on her before
bringing your bride home to America.
Do The Mexican Women Speak English?
Ivan's Answer: Each profile indicates if they do, but most do
not. During the meeting process, I or a hired translator will be
involved to bridge the communication hurdle. But remember this: Love
is a universal language. If you make a match, learning to
communicate with each other will be one of the strongest ties that
bind your relationship.
Can Mexican Women Visit The U.S.?
Ivan's Answer: Yes, and some of
the women will already have a visitor visa or passport. (This is
indicated in each profile.) Others will need your assistance.
Another option is a Fiancé Visa. It generally takes 90-120 days to
get. With it you may bring your bride to the U.S. and have 90 days
to marry her. If you don't marry, she will have to return to Mexico.
What About Immigration?
Ivan's Answer: Not a Problem, but
can be time consuming. American men have brought in foreign
brides or fiancées into our country since its inception. Since we have a long history of
doing so, the process is very straightforward and inexpensive. You can
have a lawyer handle the visa process, (This of course could be pricey) or you can do it yourself. The
Immigration and Naturalizations Service website provides instructions
and forms. If you do it yourself, I recommend you research the whole
process before beginning, because any incorrect preparations will cause
delays. A good research site to start with is
Beyond Your Fee, What Kind Of Expenses Can I Expect After I Find A Match?
Ivan's Answer: Including my fee,
your total expenses will be lower then just dating an American woman! Of
course the exact answer depends largely on you.
For most the cost will include long distance phone calls,
translation services, immigration processing, one or
two roundtrip plane trips for you (one of which could be a honeymoon),
and a one-way trip for her to come to America. Heck, the savings alone from buying
the engagement ring in Mexico makes the whole process a bargain.
Beware Of Mail Order Bride Agency Scams.
Ivan's Answer: In the words of the
great W.C. Fields: "There's A Sucker Born Every Minute". The best con
artist knows that taking advantage of human emotions is the quickest way
to his con his mark. Don't let your loneliness turn you into a sucker!
Below is a good site listing the many deceptive practices and frauds in
the mail order bride and foreign bride marriage agencies.
Mail Order Brides Scams.